Dear Missionary Lady,
Greetings in the name of our gentle God, who is constant and faithful. He gives us these comforting words: “I am not going to ignore you, abandon you, or turn my back on you.”
There are various reasons, both intentional and unintentional, why those who have been involved in our lives might withdraw from us. True, such a hurtful change might stem from selfish and malicious reasons: envy, bitterness, anger, lack of forgiveness, and so forth. But many times the reason is less sinister. Sometimes the change is gradual and without hard feelings, prompted simply by the changes in life and interests. People get married or have children; they take on a new job or a time-consuming ministry; they move geographically; health concerns limit them or consume their time and energy; they face time-consuming family situations. These types of changes are less choices of rejection than they are inevitable adjustments. Finally, abandonment by others could simply stem from careless oversight. With the constant adjustments of life and routine, interpersonal alignments can gradually shift. There is even the unavoidable barrier of death. Whatever the reason for the diminished interaction, it can feel like abandonment, rejection, and betrayal. These changes happen because humans are finite; they have limited love, limited time, limited energy, limited compassion, and so on. God, on the other hand, is infinite in His characteristics. Because He can be everywhere at all times for everyone, with a perfect love and faithfulness, God says . . .
“The LORD also will be a refuge for the oppressed, a refuge in times of trouble. And they that know thy name will put their trust in thee: for thou, O LORD, hast not forsaken them that seek thee” (9:9-10).
“When my father and my mother forsake me, then the LORD will take me up” (27:10).
“For the LORD loveth judgment, and forsaketh not his saints; they are preserved for ever: but the seed of the wicked shall be cut off” (37:28).
“God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble” (46:1).
“For the LORD will not cast off his people, neither will he forsake his inheritance” (94:14).
“Thou have beset me behind and before, and laid thine hand upon me” (139:5).
God says, “I will never leave you and I will never, ever forsake you. I will be faithful. I will always love you. I will always be there for you. I will never run out of time for you or be unavailable. I will stand by you even if everyone else has abandoned you. You can find loving, compassionate help from me – always. Turn to Me when you are lonely or needy.”
Love in Christ,
Peggy Holt
member at Open Door Baptist Church in Lebanon, PA
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