Dear Missionary Lady,
Greetings in the name of our caring God. I have been
burdened lately over my mom’s painstakingly slow homegoing and the resulting challenges.
At times my mind is very busy, trying to strike the proper balance between making
life plans and remaining flexible. My spirit is saddened by the constancy of
this weight that hangs over our family in such a prolonged way.
As I was praying for God to help me through these
challenges, He brought a verse to mind. “Casting all your care upon him; for he
careth for you” (I Peter 5:7). This is actually one of my most-commonly recalled
verses, but there was something different this time. God impressed me that “He
cares for you” is more than just words. It’s more than an abstract statement.
Those words mean something!
My Bible study tool defines “care” with “to be of interest,
to concern, it matters.” A modern dictionary mimics that: “To feel interest or
concern.” Caring is when one person’s heart is touched with another person’s
situation, to the extent that he wants to do something to help - something to
alleviate the pain or something to improve the situation.
This was what God impressed on me. If He cares for me, if He
feels my burden, then He will do something in response. His interest and concern
will result in action. I don’t know what that action will be. It might be
giving peace and comfort. It might be stepping in to arrange the timing in a
way that is convenient and manageable. It might be helping me to trust. But if
God’s heart is touched with the troubles of my heart, He is not going to sit callously
by, doing nothing and expecting me to just be tough.
I can readily think of a few Bible examples when God cared
about someone’s overwhelmed heart. There was Hannah in I Samuel 1. These words describe
Hannah’s state: “wept,” “did not eat,” heart grieved,” “bitterness of soul,” “wept
sore,” “sorrowful spirit.” But when she poured out her soul before God, He
cared, and He responded. He sent Eli to comfort her with the promise that God
would grant her request, and Hannah bore a son.
How about this story that is a bit more unexpected? Leah in
Genesis 29. Jacob loved Rachel, not Leah, but Leah was forced on him. We tend
to share Jacob’s viewpoint, seeing Rachel as good and loved, while Leah is
wrong and hated (even though it wasn’t her fault, and there is nothing to
indicate she was of worse character or disposition than Rachel). Poor Leah was
trapped in a marriage she did not choose and in which she would never be loved.
But God cared. “When the LORD saw that Leah was hated, he opened her womb.” God’s
caring resulted in action. That did not mean Leah became loved by Jacob or that
all the conflict went away, but it did encourage Leah that “Surely the LORD
hath looked upon my affliction” and “Because the LORD hath heard that I was
hated” (Genesis 29:31-33). It didn’t change everything, but it meant something
special to Leah.
I think of one example in which the question was actually
expressed: “Don’t You care?” Jesus and His disciples were in a ship at night,
and a great storm arose, threatening to sink the ship. The disciples were panicked,
but Jesus was sleeping. They woke Him up and asked, “Master, carest thou not
that we perish?” (Mark 4:38). Did Jesus care? Yes, His heart was touched with
concern at their struggle. He responded by calming the storm.
Does Jesus care for us? He does. What does that mean? The
God whose heart has concern for and interest in our struggles does not stand
idly by. When the troubles of our heart touch His heart, He does something. His
action may not be to completely resolve the situation or to answer in the way
that we most desire, but He will do something that matters. He will give peace
and comfort. He will help us to trust. He will give us grace to withstand. He
will work out His plan for our good and for His glory. I think the point of caring
is that, whether we feel it strongly or not, the One who cares will intervene
on our behalf. He will in some way help us to endure or absorb whatever the situation
is.
Have you not found that sometimes it is enough just to know
that someone cares, even if he is not able to do anything to change or
alleviate the situation? God does that – He cares. The important difference is
that God is not incapable of doing something.
May you hear God speak to you as I heard Him speak to me
this week: “My child, remember that I care. And if I care, if My heart feels
the struggles of your heart, then know that I will step gently and
compassionately into your situation to do what is right and needed and helpful
and good. Rest in my care.” He cares for you.
Love in Christ,
Peggy Holt
member at Open Door Baptist Church in Lebanon, PA